Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Losing Friends...Friends Losing

Hi.

If I lose my friends. I hope I'm told. I hope that someone tells me.

Growing up in life you gain friends and you lose friends. When you lose friends, you regain new ones. Some friendships will last a lifetime, where as some won't last long at all.

Lately, well within the past year, I feel myself slipping away from friends. Some friends I will still have and always will. Whereas some friends I will never speak to again. It's a sad part of life, but it's part of life.

Some friends that I have lost or am currently losing, I don't want to lose. I value their friendship and would hate to see it go down the drain.

Some of my friends are the nicest people in the world. Some of my friends are complete losers. Eventually we figure out which ones are worth keeping and which ones we need to let go and set your distance.

I don't like when friends that I want to keep leave me. I feel like I am good person that they would want in their life, but it's their decision. You can't force anyone to be your friend. That isn't a true friendship.

True friendship is when you know someone is special and important and you want them in your life. You want them to have your back. You want to be able to tell them anything.

So if we are friends, get on the boat called "Brent" and let's set sail. If you aren't on boat "Brent", you will eventually realize there is a hole in your boat and you will sink and eventually drown.

I don't want anyone to drown.

The Message is brought to you by:
Brent C Umstead

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